don't get with a girl then never talk to her and her look stupid and just leave her on her own to deal with shit by herself. that's your girl she needs you, if she's upset and she's crying you need to be there and comfort her because she'd do the same for you. she asks her friends for help cause you ain't around when she needs you the most. and that's not the way to treat your blessing. actually also your boyfriend, guys also get hurt and suffer, they're human but don't mistreat someone you love.